So I found a guy that I might be willing to do but there's a small problem, he's only 6" I was really hoping for something around 9 or 10. Should I settle for him or keep hoping and looking for my dream cock?
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So I found a guy that I might be willing to do but there's a small problem, he's only 6" I was really hoping for something around 9 or 10. Should I settle for him or keep hoping and looking for my dream cock?
Good luck on the nine or ten inch, they are rare as a hen's tooth. Eight inch is more doable, but still kind of rare. Six or seven seem to be the norm, and my one regular buddy is about 6.5. I enjoy him tremendously. Don't over-estimate your ability to suck a bigger cock, teeth become a real problem with larger girth.
Go for the guy with six inches, see if you like it or not. Six inches, in my estimation, is about the perfect cock for sucking. You can take it all the way down with no struggle. And just because a guy's cock is not huge does not mean he is not going to shoot a huge load. My 58 year old buddy with the 6.5 shoots a huge load, after a suitable edging period.
Sorry, should've made more clear, I was referring to anal sex. I don't enjoy sucking.
I have an 11'' dildo I use all the time.Quote:
Originally Posted by drugstore cowboy
That 11" dildo has prob ruined your realistic expectations for life.:bigrin:
Give the 6" bloke a go. He can do much more than a dildo can. You can always keep a lookout for your dream cock too.
A live cock beats a rubber one Anyday, Darlin. There's big cocks out there, just keep looking if you have your heart set on one. There are tons of sites where you can find them, all you have to do is put forth the effort to Find them. But in my humble opinion, the guy with the 6 inches is right there in front of you, and may actually surprise you greatly given half the chance. Like I keep saying" Bigger isnt necessarily Better." Talent and passion wins out every time.
Good luck, and if you drop me a line, I'll give you a site that might help in your search..:}
Cat
is there a possibility that you can come to some arrangement that allows you to try before you buy while you continue window shopping...... and personally I agree with the others, 6 inches of flesh can be 11 inches of latex....Quote:
Originally Posted by tenncuriousforfun
Hell I'd "settle" for 6" any day . Would enjoy bigger too , don't get me wrong . I have enjoyed smaller also . I think two cliches are pertain here . "A bird in the hand beats two in the bush" and "Love the one you're with" . I think two in the bush can be crowded !
Don't expect sex in real life to be like a porn film, there are large men out there but the average size of men is smaller than what you are dreaming of. People come in all different shapes and sizes, and there is more to a man than just his dick (I have to say that even though some of you don't believe it)
Bottom line is, if you don't try it - you'll never know if you like it but I also have to agree that depending on how frequently you use that dildo you may need to recondition your thinking and your body's response - unless you play in other ways like making him use the dildo on you.
Are you planning on a lifetime commitment to your dream cock and fearing you have to settle for average? What's the harm in trying? In your profile you're a Kinsey 1 so it would seem you're purely looking for a sexual experience? In my experience cock size is only one aspect of having sex with a man, I've had several larger that my partners but wouldn't trade any of them for what he can do in bed, on a purely sexual level. He has amazing stamina and imagination, he's attentive to me and my arousal, it's my very good fortune he's also the man I fell in love with. We did spend 18 months in a nsa, non exclusive friendship before we had a go at falling in love and of course our sex now include that dimension, but I remember very well how he made me feel before that happened.
One thing I wanted to say since this morning is that if you are receiving anal sex I would be more concerned about the personality of the other man and if there is chemistry between the two of you than I would be about the size of his cock...a lot of orgasm is actually in the mind..which may explain why you enjoy the thought of 10-11" <wicked grin>