I'm pretty much gay. I've only ever been attracted to one woman and I married her about 10 years ago. I guess that makes me technically bisexual. I still haven't figured this all out
Like most men in my situation I thought it would just go away, or that it wasn't really true. Well it didn't go away, if anything it became stronger. And here i am trying to connect with other men in this situation. Married and planning to stay that way.
So far she is the only one I'm out to. About 3 or 4 years into our marriage it became obvious to me that the attractions I had felt were getting stronger, not going away. And it's been something I've been trying to come to terms with ever since. She's been nothing but loving and caring back to me as I've tried to work through this. She is very loving and I love her more than myself. The last thing I want to do is hurt her.
I do enjoy trying to please her. But my tastes run heavily towards men. On a kinsey scale about a 5.8
I've done alot of research into mixed orientation marriage and the odds aren't good. But we've never let that stop us.