Mike29
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DJ (Cynthia)...stay in touch.

-Mike

Hello DJ (Cynthia):
Sorry for just now getting back to you. I don't get on this site very much. I've been at this for a while (since my divorce), but I wouldn't say I know everything.
If you're serious about connecting, I feel it's a lot easier here in Calif than other parts of the country. I find meeting at swinger clubs to meet couples or singles a huge help. If you meet and click, you're at a safe location to play. If you meet and don't "click" you might with someone else at the club. And of course, you can always play with the person you went with.
Since this is a Bi site, I'll mention that some clubs welcome the Bi female side of a couple, but the Bi males are a different story (at least not openly). It took me a few visits to figure out that when I was asked if I was "Open minded", that it met if I sucked cock behind closed doors.
House parties can be equally as dicey.
clubs open to gay, bi and transgender; it goes without saying - you're welcome.

Mike

Hi Mike--

Thanks for reaching out. DJ here. My lovely wife is Cynthia. It sounds like you have had more luck than we have making something like this work. We have found it bit challenging to fit the right overall connection. As you know, this kind of arrangement is not all that common so it's often hard to know who might even be interested.

Not sure where it might take us, but glad to chat a bit and see what happens....

DJ

Glad you like my pics, it's a turn on knowing they get you hard and horny