I have been bisexual for as long as I can remember or at a very long time. For more on that just ask. I am married to a wonderful man who is also bisexual. But as funny as it is we live in a mostly straight world. We are mostly a private couple and like it that way and keeps the peace for many reason. We both have been married before and came out to each other after the first year of dating. I have had three children before meeting him and he had none. He has help raised my (now our) children for the past 6 years. Maybe once our children have grown and other area's of our lives have moved on we will be able to be more out. It's still all new to the both of us since neither one of us have an actual area or relation ship with the same sex. Yet, this does not mean that we do not enjoy the looks of our fellow same sex gender. Yet, to find a good friend to talk to (other then each other) in our area is not easy when your not out publicly. Nor, does it seem like most people who are more then straight would under stand or gay/les/bi understand y we don't come out.