It does, thanks, I am a patient man thanks to the military.
You seem pretty convinced meeting someone is going to take a long time. For your sake I hope that is not the case. A coupe of comments I hope will help you. From my experience - some 6 months now - there are very few straight guys seeking anyone but another male. A big proportion of them are men who explored other men as kids, moved on to marry, and now find their wife isn't interested anymore. Second, add some more information about yourself to your bio section. Many men check it before contacting other men. Details there have served as guides to me. Consider posting and reviewing discussions often. I have met four guys so far who had read my postings and decided to contact me through 'private' communications. And many others who resulted in conversations between us that were private and served as guides for my activity. I hope that helps?