I've long been curious about having sex with another man and three years ago, at age 59, I crossed the line and had my first homosexual experience. I am married and love my wife with all of my heart but our sex life has ended so this seemed to be the best way to relieve my high sex drive. Simply put, since turning, I have never looked back. I still love my wife as much as I ever did - or more - and I'd never want to lose her but there has always been something missing in my life sexually and I now know what it was.
In real every day life, I am easy going and enjoy people but in the bedroom, I prefer the Dominant role and have no interest at all in playing the submissive role. My wife and I became involved in D/s and B&D some years ago and that was the best sex that I'd ever had up until my first time with another guy who was/is definitely submissive. We were both new to the m/m scene but we fit into it easily and naturally and we would get together every few weeks for a couple of years until I had to step back for personal reasons. We are talking about rejuvenating that relationship and I see another guy ( also is total sub ) on an occasional basis as well. I have come to realize that as things progress, I have developed a preference for m/m sex as opposed to hetero sex and while I struggled with that for some time, I have learned to accept it as how I am and today, I am OK with it.
I am into old cars and I love my family. I am retired but have more to do now than I ever did and the days are just a blur. I welcome hearing from any new friends who are into or are curious about the bi sexual scene and/or the Dom/sub scene as perhaps we have things in common or I can help with suggestions. I look forward to meeting new people in the lifestyle here and welcome any and all contact or correspondence.