I lurked here a long time before I joined. Clearly, Drew had designed the site as a meet-up and date sort of thing and I'm monogamous and happily married. So the hook-up/date thing isn't of any interest to me. But the community here, as contentious as it can be, is also a vibrant one full of interesting people. I'm here for that, basically. That's why I decided to join. I still mostly lurk, but I'll chime in on the conversation now and again.
I'm bi. I've told that story a time or two here. I've always known that I was bi even before I had a word for it.
I write bisexual erotic romance and plan to publish soon.
I'm a neo-Pagan, too.
I could go on but I'm really on here to talk now and again and to listen to what people have to say.