screen name use to be koupleplus1f. Been here for sometime now. for the most part my wife was really into the idea of having a female join us. it has been a long road and she has been disappointed to many times. so she has totally given up. since she has given up, she does not want me to do anything either. our sex life has dropped to zero. she doesn't know I still get on here, not that she minds all that must because she knows nothing ever happens to meet people for real. lots of talk or chat. use to be a good portion of my social life. I now have lots of trouble even getting it up. from massive crazy sex to this. I just really don't know what to do or where to go from here. now it is 2017. came back to this site because things are changing again. there has been talk of possibly returning. not to sure how it will go this time.we shall see.