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Hiding bi choice
Jun 8, 2010, 9:18 PM
Would you attend a swingers party where you had to be Bi, Bi-curious, or Bi-friendly (and bi-friendly does not mean that you like to see 2 girls but are offended by 2 guys)? We have been going to swingers clubs, but I have not been inclined to indulge because what I really want to experience is an atmosphere where we can swing any way we want to. Where my husband doesn't have to hide his bisexuality. I would love to host/attend an event like this before the summer ends. What are your thoughts.

BareHunter45
Jun 8, 2010, 9:37 PM
We can't do that since the wife is basically straight, but we have had swing parties where we have let all the guests know that it is a "bi-friendly" party and that no one should be offended if they observe it happening. Of course, "no" always means "no" and if some one offers and does not want you to, then you don't, but they should not be offended by the offer.

Bare

Hiding bi choice
Jun 8, 2010, 11:04 PM
We can't do that since the wife is basically straight, but we have had swing parties where we have let all the guests know that it is a "bi-friendly" party and that no one should be offended if they observe it happening. Of course, "no" always means "no" and if some one offers and does not want you to, then you don't, but they should not be offended by the offer.

Bare

That would be cool too. As long as it's an atmosphere where we can both choose to (or not to) express and enjoy our bisexuality.

2machomy
Jun 8, 2010, 11:28 PM
There are clubs that have bi-nights. We have a club in RI that has such a night about every two months. It's one of their wilder nights, too.

FalconAngel
Jun 8, 2010, 11:35 PM
There are clubs that have bi-nights. We have a club in RI that has such a night about every two months. It's one of their wilder nights, too.

Can't speak for the clubs elsewhere, but the clubs down here do not have a truly Bi night at all. Their version of Bi night is girl on girl is allowed and guy-guy is really seriously discouraged.

There was one club that had a truly BI night, near Miami International, but they stopped doing it due to a lack of participation. If they had done it on a Saturday night instead of Sunday night, it probably would still be going on.

Shame, too, but too far to go to on a Sunday night for those of us that do not live in Dade County.

Cherokee_Mountaincat
Jun 9, 2010, 12:44 AM
The Swingers group that I have been a member of for almost 8 years now is very welcoming to people of all sexual orientations, and any Bi person is readily accepted..:} We dont have "Special Nights" or anything like that, you are just welcome to come as you are and enjoy yourself..:cool:
Cat

pasco_lol_cpl
Jun 9, 2010, 1:28 AM
Can't speak for the clubs elsewhere, but the clubs down here do not have a truly Bi night at all. Their version of Bi night is girl on girl is allowed and guy-guy is really seriously discouraged.

There was one club that had a truly BI night, near Miami International, but they stopped doing it due to a lack of participation. If they had done it on a Saturday night instead of Sunday night, it probably would still be going on.

Shame, too, but too far to go to on a Sunday night for those of us that do not live in Dade County.
Same on the west coast of Florida. We do have one private group that throws on occasional bi nights on Saturday night. The down side is that they are private so the # of invited members means the pickins are slim.

TaylorMade
Jun 9, 2010, 2:00 AM
Can't speak for the clubs elsewhere, but the clubs down here do not have a truly Bi night at all. Their version of Bi night is girl on girl is allowed and guy-guy is really seriously discouraged.

There was one club that had a truly BI night, near Miami International, but they stopped doing it due to a lack of participation. If they had done it on a Saturday night instead of Sunday night, it probably would still be going on.

Shame, too, but too far to go to on a Sunday night for those of us that do not live in Dade County.

Yeah, you mean Miami Velvet. It's like the week I got a f'n car and was ready to get up on that... it was over.
Bastards. I don't even go to MV anymore b/c. . . it's just not worth being hit on by creepy couples when I can get that w/o leaving the house. :p

I've thought about starting something kinda underground for the (sorry) under 40/45 set... I know quite a few bi people in my age group and wondered how much it would run to rent adjoining hotel rooms, a case of condoms and some lube and see what happens.

But I don't know EVERYONE like that and it might not go that way.

*Taylor*

NavySeaman
Jun 9, 2010, 8:24 AM
I Think it would be great and a well rounded exp.!!!! oh and very exciting!~!....:bigrin:

fredtyg
Jun 9, 2010, 11:25 AM
I suppose you could always start your own club and run it the way you want.

We have a local club where I live. I used to be called Club Risque' but morphed into the Humboldt Impropriety Society (http://www.humboldtimps.com/) (link goes to their web site). While many in the club seem to be into BDSM, pretty much about anything goes, from what I've seen.

I haven't attended any of their events, yet, but have a nephew that does and lets me in on what goes on. What they do is rent some big place for a night, usually some closed local business that has enough room for 150 people, or so. Then they set it up for BDSM and have mattresses and stuff available for everyone to use. You have to pay something like $25.00 to attend which helps pay for the rent of the place.

I placed some polls on their Yahoo Group and found a healthy percentage of bisexual guys and girls in the group- at least among those that participated in the poll. Just under half of the guys seemed to be bisexual to some extent.

I was wondering if I could set up a bi/ queer room at one of their events and give free blowjobs or anal to anyone who wanted it? I asked one of their leadership gals if she thought that would be appropriate for their events and she said it definitely was.

I'll keep my eye open for the opportunity to do so.

Anyway, maybe think about starting something similar in your area.

vip2469
Jun 9, 2010, 1:16 PM
Take a look at Rainbowmountain.com It is gay owned. They just had a bi weekend party. We have been there twice and enjoyed it very much. It is located in PA.

BiCplAz
Jun 9, 2010, 1:39 PM
We have parties in our pool where all attending are bi. Everyone enjoys everyone else. Never had any MM anal, but it would be ok, but lots of oral and the girls do oral and strapons. Our pics show some of the activity going on. We love bi parties. Our friends who attend also throw bi parties in their pools and homes. It's the only way to go:-)

FalconAngel
Jun 9, 2010, 2:11 PM
Yeah, you mean Miami Velvet. It's like the week I got a f'n car and was ready to get up on that... it was over.
Bastards. I don't even go to MV anymore b/c. . . it's just not worth being hit on by creepy couples when I can get that w/o leaving the house. :p

I've thought about starting something kinda underground for the (sorry) under 40/45 set... I know quite a few bi people in my age group and wondered how much it would run to rent adjoining hotel rooms, a case of condoms and some lube and see what happens.

But I don't know EVERYONE like that and it might not go that way.

*Taylor*

Yeah, MV.

Well, in your case, you are a smoking hot girl and Bi is acceptable at every swinger's club any night for you.

You would find Deenies (in Pompano) or Hedo (near Sample and Dixie) more to your liking. But you may find that the older (older for you) couples are not as creepy and quite nice at Deenies. Hedonism, not too sure about, but it is off-premises and I believe that it has a notably younger crowd. But then, those are both closer to us than to you.

Stay away from Trapeze. They don't have the best rep and they have been raided a couple of times that I know of.

As far as a private underground thing, then check for rates and such. The Rooftop (http://www.rooftopresort.com/) might be a good place to start and after you have rates (consider hikes during tourist season) then crunch the numbers for it all and start setting things up.

csreef
Jun 9, 2010, 2:34 PM
I used to belong to a Swingers group. Being Bi with women was ok for women, not men...

I joined a Bi Swingers group, and the one party that I went to didn't go any place...They didn't have any more parties,so I left the group.

TaylorMade
Jun 9, 2010, 3:40 PM
Yeah, MV.

Well, in your case, you are a smoking hot girl and Bi is acceptable at every swinger's club any night for you.

You would find Deenies (in Pompano) or Hedo (near Sample and Dixie) more to your liking. But you may find that the older (older for you) couples are not as creepy and quite nice at Deenies. Hedonism, not too sure about, but it is off-premises and I believe that it has a notably younger crowd. But then, those are both closer to us than to you.

Stay away from Trapeze. They don't have the best rep and they have been raided a couple of times that I know of.

As far as a private underground thing, then check for rates and such. The Rooftop (http://www.rooftopresort.com/) might be a good place to start and after you have rates (consider hikes during tourist season) then crunch the numbers for it all and start setting things up.

My g/f went to Deenie's and said it was cool. . . I may go with her one time and see how I like it. I never wanted to go to Trapeze (I'd heard the stories too), but I'll try Hedonism.

I'll run the Rooftop by some of my friends. Most of us have lighter workloads for the summer... Maybe we'll make it a quarterly/semesterly thing.

*Taylor*

Hiding bi choice
Jun 10, 2010, 12:45 AM
I'm glad to see that I have stimulated an active conversation. I am really thinking about starting a group. The adjoining hotel rooms is probably the best way to start. I know there are a lot of risks that come with starting a group that is not readily accepted by all, but there are risks in everything that you do in life.

There's no place to go in the North/Central jersey area and I just feel like we should all be indulged on a regular basis. Life's too short for anything less!!

Krys:bibounce:

SvnUpSF
Jun 11, 2010, 4:43 PM
Here in the SF Bay Area (Calif), there is a couple who throw bi-swingers parties at their (East Bay) condo weekly. I've not been to one (yet) so can't comment directly on how they are, but from their updates (and pix in their website postings) they look like fun. They have a group on Yahoo Groups for any who are interested in joining, it's bayareabisexualparties@yahoogroups.com .

If anybody does go or has any first-hand knowledge of these, I'm sure some of us would be interested in hearing from a participant.

boca.openminded
Jun 11, 2010, 7:25 PM
Yeah, MV.

Well, in your case, you are a smoking hot girl and Bi is acceptable at every swinger's club any night for you.

You would find Deenies (in Pompano) or Hedo (near Sample and Dixie) more to your liking. But you may find that the older (older for you) couples are not as creepy and quite nice at Deenies. Hedonism, not too sure about, but it is off-premises and I believe that it has a notably younger crowd. But then, those are both closer to us than to you.

Stay away from Trapeze. They don't have the best rep and they have been raided a couple of times that I know of.

As far as a private underground thing, then check for rates and such. The Rooftop (http://www.rooftopresort.com/) might be a good place to start and after you have rates (consider hikes during tourist season) then crunch the numbers for it all and start setting things up.

lol

definitely easier for a female (single or not) then it is for a male. Me personally I would love to find a group just where everyone hangs out and just be real.

NakedInSeattle
Jun 11, 2010, 9:18 PM
"Would you attend a swingers party where you had to be Bi, Bi-curious, or Bi-friendly"

Ooooo would I ever!

TaylorMade
Jun 12, 2010, 2:02 PM
I saw Hedonism's website. It doesn't look too bad. :) I'll give em a try in the next couple weeks.

*Taylor*

anonzymous
Jun 14, 2010, 3:39 PM
Where is the signup sheet?

TheBisexualProfessor
Jun 14, 2010, 4:49 PM
Maybe you should throw your own parties. Here is a group I discovered on Yahoogroups -- in Australia. The group is free, though you have to join Yahoogroups if you don't have a Yahoo I.D. (that is free too).

Anyway, this is not an advertisement ... and I have NO connection in any professional way to Yahoo. But the group is fascinating, and they throw private bi parties and post hundres of pics a year. Check it out. You will NOT be sorry. The amateur fun never ends. Hope I can visit one day!

http://groups.yahoo.com/group/thenbogroup4/

pabicur27
Jun 15, 2010, 7:16 PM
I am a virgin looking for my first-time MM experience. I would be very interested in attending!

nakedheathen
Jun 16, 2010, 12:04 AM
My thought is where and when is the party and what should I bring? Condoms, lube, wine, beer, toys?:bibounce:

bityme
Jun 16, 2010, 12:51 AM
Would you attend a swingers party where you had to be Bi, Bi-curious, or Bi-friendly (and bi-friendly does not mean that you like to see 2 girls but are offended by 2 guys)? We have been going to swingers clubs, but I have not been inclined to indulge because what I really want to experience is an atmosphere where we can swing any way we want to. Where my husband doesn't have to hide his bisexuality. I would love to host/attend an event like this before the summer ends. What are your thoughts.

I am fortunate to be a member of a bi-friendly group. We have at least 4 parties per month, 3 of which are bi-friendly. A 4th party is a bi/fetish night. There is generally some bi activity at every party, but about 75% of the interaction at the bi/fetish night is same sex (male or female). At a recent party I was engaged in a 69 with another guy and one of the ladies came up behind me and and let her strap-on do the work. When I had a moment to speak, I gave her an hour to stop.:rotate:

If you want to host a bi party, go for it. It can be great fun.:bounce:

ErosUrge
Jun 16, 2010, 1:28 PM
Fortunately for me in my area, I belong to a local bi group where at least twice a year, a social gathering occurs for the purpose of everyone having the freedom to be sexual with everyone. Of course, one can't be pushy and expect to be with someone if they'd rather not. But one cannot attend, males and females alike, if there are reservations about being with someone sexually of the same sex or are repulsed seeing it. In essence, one can't attend unless one is actually bi or bi friendly. I wouldn't go otherwise and don't know why anyone would unless they were comfortable with the arrangement.

Dark_Valkyrie
Aug 29, 2011, 11:36 AM
Hi there, newbie to the site here. Fortunately, NOT a newbie to bisexual swing parties!!

Please, allow me! I attend two different house parties on a regular basis. Two different couples in two different locations hold ALL-BI swing parties. You do not have to be bi; but you can't be offended by any consentual sex going on. Also into BDSM, but we do keep that to one bedroom in the apartment so as to allow those to view who wish to. Well, it ended up in the living room due to the number of people interested in watching, if not participating.

I'm sad to say I will be leaving these wonderful people behind to travel cross country. :(

However, the first project is finding similar people in my new home. I have EVERY faith they're around!

NeonSwing
Aug 29, 2011, 4:42 PM
Until recently, there was a regular bisexual swinger party held here in Vegas. It was hosted by a couple at their home, I think it was a second home, meeting two to three times each week. They also varied the party times, some during the day, some at night, and between week days and weekends. The security was great, only a few issues with missing cell phones. The host was also very direct with new guest that is was a party at which all sexual orientation was accepted.

It was such a great environment. I had the opportunity to experience several 'first': a full cum swap kiss, a threesome with a pre-op and her girlfriend, being topped buy a really nice guy while I was inside his wife-and then trading places, partying with a porn star (Ava Devine), and developing a short relationship with a local exotic dancer and her husband.

It would be great if another such party began again here!

Taylor

NeonSwing
Sep 19, 2011, 3:42 PM
Until recently, there was a regular bisexual swinger party held here in Vegas. It was hosted by a couple at their home, I think it was a second home, meeting two to three times each week. They also varied the party times, some during the day, some at night, and between week days and weekends. The security was great, only a few issues with missing cell phones. The host was also very direct with new guest that is was a party at which all sexual orientation was accepted.

It was such a great environment. I had the opportunity to experience several 'first': a full cum swap kiss, a threesome with a pre-op and her girlfriend, being topped buy a really nice guy while I was inside his wife-and then trading places, partying with a porn star (Ava Devine), and developing a short relationship with a local exotic dancer and her husband.

It would be great if another such party began again here!



Taylor

Great news! The parties are starting up again, PM me for info on how to be invited to the party. First party is this Thursday and many have replied that they'll be attending. Looks like a great mix for everyone to play with the either gender!

FredinSJ
Sep 19, 2011, 8:40 PM
Somebody above said:

Re: Bi- Swingers Party
We have parties in our pool where all attending are bi. Everyone enjoys everyone else. Never had any MM anal, but it would be ok, but lots of oral and the girls do oral and strapons. Our pics show some of the activity going on. We love bi parties. Our friends who attend also throw bi parties in their pools and homes. It's the only way to go:-)

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We agree! Here in central NJ we host & attend such parties.
Call us ONLY if you are mature, unselfish, open (with a name) and not a jerk... our hosts, friends & guests are very nice, non pushy, and "anything goes."

Being bi doubles your chance for a date on Sat. night.
---Woody Allen

FredinSJ
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swmnkdinthervr
Sep 21, 2011, 5:57 PM
We would jump at the chance to attend "bi" parties...sadly the only ones we know of are a long way off!

ErosUrge
Sep 22, 2011, 2:45 AM
A resounding yes to attending an all bi party as I have and do...there are some here in my area and are very enjoyable.

Things are always more interesting and fun when all are allowed to play with everyone regardless of sex...