Confessing bisexuality to my partner with success

[GSP107]

Hello all, new poster who has come here to enjoy the freedom I now feel.

My life (now 48) had been one of discovery I guess, from being bored with porn and seeking excitement (started with shemales then guy pics) to watching bisex and gay porn. I always became heavily aroused but knew I also loved women and I guess I just put it down to fantasy. Over the years that continued until I visited a cruising area to 'see what it was like' and went back many times, only a few times did I see anyone I liked enough to play with...just handjobs and blowjobs, it was fun but never really what I wanted as the guys were not that great. Anyway, not a year ago I was courageous enough to tell my wife (been with 10 years in total) during sex that I liked a guys cock as we watched porn and she was turned on and seemed not to care but it was a start. From there I'd casually mention a few other comments when the time was right and that ended up with me being pegged by her for my birthday, it's only happened twice in total but was great. It all came about as she's seen features on it being popular in womens mags and we got to talking about it (who knew pegging would become fashionable!)

In the last few weeks I have had a good discussion with her. She is so sexy, and 80% of my porn time is straight, but I admitted I liked gay and bisex porn and confessed to having cock pics (saved from porn sites) on my phone. She asked to see them and asked what I liked and why I liked it, and kindly used her hands on me as we looked. After that we talked more and she asked to see what type of porn I watched and actually admitted that she found it all arousing. Then I got a text (long) to say she had played with girls in the past (which I knew) and how she enjoyed it but wasn't really for her...but she still likes occasional lesbian porn and understands my feelings. She has said it is OK for me to want to have sex with a man if I'd like to, and that she'd like to be a part of that if I'd like her to be. In the meantime we enjoy porn and role play.

So I now treat myself as bisexual and feel a release. I'm lucky as I have so much to enjoy, that hot guy over there and that sexy girl over there. BUT, while this post has been sexual (as that's how it happened) it's not all about that, I just feel lucky to have been allowed to be open and safe with a great outcome. Thanks for reading x

[KDaddy23]

Congratulations! Not a lot of guys are with a woman who is so understanding and willing to be a part of things and, no, it's not just about the sex; it's about the honesty required to make this happen and successfully so!

[NJwood]

Great! It is seriously freeing to be open with your partner about your sexuality. When I started dating after the passing of my first wife, I decided that it was going to be put out there when the time was right. There was no way I was going to be in a relationship where I was open about it. When I dated my second wife, it came up and she found it very erotic. She is completely supportive of my desires and doesn’t see it as a threat to our marriage.
Enjoy your explorations!

[Grant_Norman]

Great! Congratulations. It is wonderful feeling to be openly bisexual. I'm so glad your female partner has been mostly accepting. My wife and I are currently getting a divorce (serious other issues also), I came out to her in January this year that I've been secretly very actively bisexual for 7 years (swallowed over 200 loads) yet, she completely cut me off from any sex or intimacy 10 years ago. While I've always been bisexual since 6 years old, I pretty much was only hetero sexual until 2015 and just suppressed the urges. Not anymore. Guys, and recently a hot girl, have greatly satisfied me.

Welcome to the open world!

Grant

[DD788Snipe]

Hello all, new poster who has come here to enjoy the freedom I now feel.
x

:thumbu::thumbu::thumbu::thumbu::thumbu: I'll give you 5 thumbs up. You are a very lucky guy. Enjoy.

[Neonaught]

Congratulations on winning her acceptance! I told my lovely wife of 36 years I was bisexual about 22 years ago and to my surprise and delight she had also had some enjoyable girl on girl play in the past. We have since had many wonderful nights with bi, gay and straight couples and singles and even at at 57 we still love good sex. I feel truely blessed among men!

I was recently trading some emails with another bi couple here and the wife mentioned she wished there were more ladies on the site. I mentioned it to my wife and she has decided to join our merry little band here! Please welcome my lovely wife Mrsneonaught!

[GSP107]

Thats amazing, good to have her here! We are also looking for a willing partner...just a guy at the moment who is happy to look after me and her, and for us to look after him. Her wish is to have me inside her, while he is inside me...and who am I to complain about that!

[jimkimball]

Sorry not a good idea ,been there done that. It wasn't good.

[atxbi]

Long story, but the first wife is the one who started me down the road of enjoying the pleasures a hard cock. She is now long gone, but the pleasure of having a cock in my mouth gets more intense every time I have the next one. The more I swallow loads, the more I like it.

[csreef]

WOW! Congratulations to you! Not everyone is so lucky to have a wife that is accepting you your newfound sexuality. Keep us posted as this new chapter in your life unfolds.

[Flounder1967]

Congrats, set the ground rules early and more detailed the better.

[nu2curious]

Of all sexuality bisexual is the most difficult for people to understand and this applies to both genders, too. If a man is fortunate enough to find acceptance and understanding from a spouse or girlfriend he's indeed a very fortunate individual. (Tipping hat now.)

[wondering56231]

I too am married to a very understand, accepting and bi wife. I told her right up front so there would be no issue of having to hide that part of me. So basically we came out to each other at the same time. We have had many wonderful experiences together. She also allows me the lattitude of playing with men solo. Communication is the key. Congrats on being in a super elite club :P.

[Neonaught]

Thats amazing, good to have her here! We are also looking for a willing partner...just a guy at the moment who is happy to look after me and her, and for us to look after him. Her wish is to have me inside her, while he is inside me...and who am I to complain about that!

As a top we have always wanted to have the man in the middle 3 wy fuck you mentioned but have yet to find a bi bottom that can stay erect once my big cock is in him.

[csreef]

As a top we have always wanted to have the man in the middle 3 wy fuck you mentioned but have yet to find a bi bottom that can stay erect once my big cock is in him.

Sorry for being off Topic but:offtopic:, this is something I've wanted since I was 15. No joke.

[Neonaught]

Sorry for being off Topic but:offtopic:, this is something I've wanted since I was 15. No joke.

No worries! If you ever get to the Houston area we'd be happy to make our mutual dream cum true!

[Pete2014]

For years I kept my thoughts to myself. When I met my wife she told me she liked women and even experimented in college with girl on girl. So our children have grown and my desire got more and more for bisexual play. I guess my wife sensed it or saw what I was looking at on the net. Anyway she asked and I did admit to wanting to be with a guy. So now she has come to me and would like to explore polyamory. Mmmmm who knew. We shall see, in the meantime I do enjoy men friends. It’s really nice to be able to speak with her about both of our fantasies.

[Neonaught]

For years I kept my thoughts to myself. When I met my wife she told me she liked women and even experimented in college with girl on girl. So our children have grown and my desire got more and more for bisexual play. I guess my wife sensed it or saw what I was looking at on the net. Anyway she asked and I did admit to wanting to be with a guy. So now she has come to me and would like to explore polyamory. Mmmmm who knew. We shall see, in the meantime I do enjoy men friends. It’s really nice to be able to speak with her about both of our fantasies.

You're a lucky guy to have such an understanding spouse. As we get the kids launched it'snot uncommon to try to expand and enhance your sex like after all the years spent raising a family with all the time sucks that entails. We did the same thing: we decided the time was right to step up our sexual game several notches and make up for lost time. Cohabitation polyamory may be quite a leap to make given all the issues attached to finding folks who are the right fit. I'm not saying it can't be done but it is far more complex than simply trying swinging a bit to dip your toes in and get comfortable having fun sex with others. We wish you the best of luck!

[Littlegrizz]

I confessed it to my wife but it was with out success even tho she was Bi and had a regular girl friend she played with. She divorced me a year later.

[Neonaught]

I confessed it to my wife but it was with out success even tho she was Bi and had a regular girl friend she played with. She divorced me a year later.

Wow! What a hypocrite! Sounds like she just wanted out of the relationship and hung your sexual tastes on it to get free.

[Littlegrizz]

Wow! What a hypocrite! Sounds like she just wanted out of the relationship and hung your sexual tastes on it to get free.


I think the exact same thing. She used that as a excuse!