Is it sexual appealing....

[Moonlight_BHI]

To a man or bisexual woman for a woman to watch porn while you are eating her out or fucking her?

I have been wondering this for a while.



By the way, I meant Sexually.

[Realist]

If that happened to me, I'd think that I wasn't doing enough to please whoever it was with!

I think that that watching porn, while we were doing our thing, is rude. Now, if it was something we both agreed upon, that's different.

Personally, I've never watched porn, during sex...I'm too into it. Maybe, before foreplay began we'd watch something, to help generate a spark, or get some new ideas. But, once things get rolling, I'd hope that what we were doing is the only thing we could concentrate on!

I just remembered......... a fellow once told me his wife would sometimes read a magazine and smoke while "He got his"!

Now there's an aroused couple for ya!

[Long Duck Dong]

visual sexual interaction.......

a few times I have worked on computer systems that have been set up so people have live cam feed in their bedrooms for their own private usage or for web cam sites...... one couple were open and honest enuf to talk with me about how they loved doggie style sex with a cam positioned in a way so she was watching herself being fucked and other types of sex....

one of the most interesting jobs I have done was helping with setting up multi cams in a house for a couple that loved voyeurism.... and they enjoyed being able to view and record others having sex in the house and the idea of * secretly watching / spying * on other people having uninhabited sex, was a big turn on for them.......
side note, it was all consensual, they were part of a voyeurism group so everybody knew that the viewing was taking part.......

do I find it appealing ??? sorta ... I find it interesting as amateur style porn is often more emotional, spur of the moment, passionate etc ... cos the people creating it are often enjoying the sex and turned on by the idea that they will be showing others and / or being watched.......

[bityme]

Like Realist, I occasionally had some porn on to get things going, but once the action starts my concentration is elsewhere and, as far as I know, so was the concentration of whoever I was with.

I've been to any number of parties where porn would be playing on a single or multiple screens in the facility. However, like private encounters, it fades into the background as events unfold.

Pappy

[darkeyes]

I'm with u Realist, babes..

If I was licking a girl I would be bloody annoyed and insulted if she could concentrate enough to watch porn an all...with me own failure as much as 'er bad manners... I cant do it, cos the whole experience is just too bloody intense for such trivial distraction.. the movie would just be so much background noise the content of which I would be blissfully unaware...

[ohmymy69]

Having porn on in the background doesn't bother me even if someone is looking at it, I'm not threatened by any distractions, I'm pretty confident of my ability to please someone and I have found that background porn can elevate the sexual tension in the room!

[Rhevan]

In a nutshell....yes :)

[dickhand]

It doesn't bother me at all if my partner (male or female) is watching porn while I am doing oral on them . Or anything else for that matter .

[welickit]

I had a girlfriend long ago that watched TV one night while having sex at the same time. I got frustrated to say the least. Next morning before we got out of bed I asked her about it and if she preferred TV to sex suddenly. I had to wait for her to stop laughing before she explained it to me.

She had a fantasy and was living it out in a safe way. In her mind she was alone in bed with no lights except for the TV. She really wanted sex but didn't want to play with herself. A mystery man came in through the window and started playing with her. She enjoyed it but didn't dare look at him. They had sex and when it was over she was totally satisfied.

Later she told me she held that image in her mind and frequently thought about it at work. She had some other pretty neat fantasies that we had fun with once we got past the first one and were on the same page. :bipride:

[want2havefun]

Having porn on in the background doesn't bother me even if someone is looking at it, I'm not threatened by any distractions, I'm pretty confident of my ability to please someone and I have found that background porn can elevate the sexual tension in the room!

This^^

I also find that any woman I am licking wont be paying attention to the screen for long anyway. ;)

[Light_and_Dark]

I believe it can be depending on the couple...Me and my girl will have sex while watching our favorite tv shows we both find it highly erotic and makes the show more enjoyable...Now my girl in particular has this self conscious thing about her where she cant look at the guy she is sleeping with out of fear of seeing disgust on his face...so me personally i would not be upset about her watching porn while being eaten out or having sex...have done it quite a few times before being with her and know it can be exceptionally arousing.

[lizard-lix]

I've gone down on folks while they watched porn, and have watched while someone went down on me and it was fun for something a little different.

If I am the one one doing the eating, I try to match the scene playing, if I can see it, so the person can imagine being there.

I would never be insulted, unless the person was more into the movie than me, but then again if that was the case, maybe I should be embarrassed at the quality of MY performance..

I look at porn as another sex toy, sometimes it nice for a starter, sometimes an adder, and I've even been with someone and timed it to finish with the action on screen..

Just another way to play...

So, yes it can be appealing, it can even be damn hot.

[Gearbox]

I love fully clothed foreplay while watching non-porn. But not full oral watching porn.
I was going down on a gf once, and I JOKINGLY said, "Eastenders (her fave soap) is starting in a mo.", thinking that I was so good at it that she'd miss it for once.:rolleyes:
She jumped off the bed and pulled her knockers up.
What a slap in the gob THAT was!:bigrin:

[darkeyes]

I was going down on a gf once, and I JOKINGLY said, "Eastenders (her fave soap) is starting in a mo.", thinking that I was so good at it that she'd miss it for once.:rolleyes:
She jumped off the bed and pulled her knockers up.
What a slap in the gob THAT was!:bigrin:

They that big she had pull 'em up? Shudda gotcha gob outa the way bit kwikka.. big knockers can b rite wayward an' painful wen pulled up in a hurry.. thank god for me tidgies...:bigrin:

[Darkside2009]

I've gone down on folks while they watched porn, and have watched while someone went down on me and it was fun for something a little different.

If I am the one one doing the eating, I try to match the scene playing, if I can see it, so the person can imagine being there.

I would never be insulted, unless the person was more into the movie than me, but then again if that was the case, maybe I should be embarrassed at the quality of MY performance..

I look at porn as another sex toy, sometimes it nice for a starter, sometimes an adder, and I've even been with someone and timed it to finish with the action on screen..

Just another way to play...

So, yes it can be appealing, it can even be damn hot.

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You use an adder as a sex toy? :eek: Bit adventurous boyo. lol

[Gearbox]

They that big she had pull 'em up? Shudda gotcha gob outa the way bit kwikka.. big knockers can b rite wayward an' painful wen pulled up in a hurry.. thank god for me tidgies...:bigrin:
:bigrin: I meant "Knickers". Freudian slip there. She was a bit of a hunch-front.Oh fond mammaries:rolleyes:
Those tidgies of yours could still knock a man/gal out, I'd wager!:tongue:

[goldenfinger]

Both love to watch porn while doing it.

[SoFlaPolyCouple]

I find anything that turns my wife on sexually appealing.

[Hephaestion]

Depends who it is that one is with. Some do, some don't want to watch porn. As the intention is to please one's partner, I go with what they want to do.

It can be good fun shopping for the 'porn' together.

[BiJoe696]

Wife and I have made lots of home videos leaving the cam and TV on while having fun, sometimes looking at the TV as mentioned above to get a different view of what is going on and see how it is looking on the video. We find that fun sometimes.

We don't watch a lot of porn while having sex but sometimes make a game of it. One game is to take a stack of porn DVD's ( vhs or 8mm tapes in our younger days) mix them up face down, choose a time during the first hour or so of the video ( say 40 mins into the video) and we will act out what ever is showing at that time. You can vary this by all kinds of choices. Another is good for oral, or for that matter any kind of sex, pick a hot xxx video scene that you like, perhaps one with a Fave Porn Star and pretend that it is you that Porn Star. So when I am eating her it might be hot male or female porn star eating her. A fun safe way to act out fantasies together be they straight, bi or ???

Its all about having fun. Just something different sometimes

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Just my :2cents: